Being ME Loving YOU Workshop

Being ME Loving YOU:  Retreat for Women

Playful people in goddess pose at sunset on a beach.February 1-8, 2025 – $2300, before Nov 1, double occupancy, limit 16

Good bye OK touch, and Hello FABULOUS touch!

Being with other women is a fun, light, safe place to speak your truth and deepen resolve to love freely.  Dr. Charla, mature sensualist, offers exercises where you practice finding out what you want (a big one!), asking for it (with ease!) and fine tuning what you like on your body (easier than you think!)

Charla’s activities, gleaned from her books 8 Erotic Nights, Erotic Massage, and 20 years of teaching intimacy, are gentle, sensual, not sexual, and clothes stay on. These exercises can change your life. No more mercy, pay back, or ‘is-it-time-for-it-again’ sex—Done with that!  Get ready for unexpected PLEASURE. You’ll take home activities like the 3 Minute Game, the Invisible Rope, the Kissing Game, that give you CONFIDENCE to initiate and lead—YOUR WAY—because you’re turned on, savvy and unapologetic.

Face it, women are tired of trying to like something we were told to like, but never really did like.  We grew up thinking that sex was about the other person, and learned to tolerate and go along with touch we didn’t want. In the bedroom, we didn’t champion our desires or even express them.

No longer. This retreat teaches you how to Be You, while talking to, touching, laughing or loving with another person!  Desires are our Highest Intelligence.  We invite them forward, value them, express them: they steer us into a life of wonder.

I’m joined by another sassy sensualist, Michelle Fleming, our resort hostess who teaches morning yoga and Thai massage. She’s why I’m coming back! All classes and activities are voluntary, sometimes you may choose to observe. Vote with your feet…and stroll the beach anytime! You’re on vacation and there’s ample time to enjoy it!

email Charla

Praise for Being ME Loving YOU:

  • I stopped thinking I should be feeling something that I’m not.Photo of Charla Hathaway teaching by a pool at sunset in a tropical location
  • Getting past fear brought out my sensations and I could feel more.
  • I never felt safe and vulnerable at the same time before. I just wanted to hang out there a long time.
  • I want to embrace your braveness, Dr. Charla, you are teaching me how to love my body.
  • I felt a calm all over since the retreat, like a calm in my soul
  • You teach a difficult subject with such ease and comfort, thank you.

Register here, more info and photos of beach, accommodations, and extra activities.  After Dec 1, tuition goes up $200.

 

Image of tropical sunset

Back to Workshops