Author Archive: Charla

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Dr. Charla Hathaway, Intimacy Expert on the THRIVE Show with Kim O’Neill

I Like that You Enjoy My Touch

Couple in love

I asked a male companion what he liked best about me after we’d spent a few days together. It was kinda a dare, but I was in the mood to hear something good about myself. He answered easily, ”You seem to really enjoy being touched.” And he added, “And you seem to enjoy touching me.”

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Finding the Sweet Spot: The Lover’s Touch

Photo of a man and woman partially clothed being playful

Location: Kurszentrum BodySpace, Engweg 3, 8006 Zürich
Date: September 8, 2017  |  Time: 7pm – 10pm
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Mmm, that glorious moment when we are giving (or getting) exactly the touch that feels good on our body!  Sometimes we find that “sweet spot” spontaneously, but more often, we find it through clear communication and feedback. How many of us say “yes” to things we don’t actually want out of guilt or a fear of losing connection? Most of us! In this class practice another way to give and get

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How To Enjoy Dating

A friend shared a dating book with me that made a huge difference in his shy, inexperienced life—you’d never recognize that in him now!  I gleaned a few new tips.  Don’t read on if you’re stuck on finding ‘The One.’  I’m personally giving it up for awhile. (more…)